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  • #11 What are the main differences in how the “good news” of the gospel is being understood?

    December 13, 2017 Read More
  • How scientific research can become weaponized (despite intentions otherwise)

    December 21, 2016 Read More
  • #10 Is the LGBT-religious conservative conversation primarily about whether to love people (or not)?

    October 30, 2016 Read More
  • Dear Gay Community, We seem to have an irreconcilable disagreement about Who-We-Are…is that okay with you?

    October 30, 2016 Read More
  • Proposing a new (common) agenda for LGBT-RC conversation: Multiplying space & freedom

    September 30, 2016 Read More
  • Why is gay rights sweeping (too many) thoughtful, good-hearted people from my faith community?

    September 29, 2016 Read More
  • We’ve got some pretty enormous disagreements about the “public good” (and bad)…Can we talk about them?

    September 29, 2016 Read More
  • #9 Are gay, lesbian, transgender & straight people fundamentally different kinds of people?

    September 28, 2016 Read More
  • Can conversation about choice be gentle and generous – or is it inherently harsh?

    September 27, 2016 Read More
  • We don’t agree on what “choice” means…can we talk about it?

    September 24, 2016 Read More
  • Beyond forcing and fighting sexual attraction: Two ways people seek to move to a healthier place

    September 11, 2016 Read More
  • #8 What does it mean to force or fight or resist one’s sexuality?

    September 11, 2016 Read More
  • Can we stop pretending there is only ONE reasonable explanation for the tragic suicides of LGBT-identifying religious youth?

    July 12, 2016 Read More
  • How do human beings know who they really are anyway?

    April 1, 2016 Read More
  • Proposing a Third Space in the LGBT/Religious Conservative Back-and-Forth

    March 10, 2016 Read More
  • Misrepresenting LGBT/Religious Conservative Disagreements: Pleading for an Honest Conversation about What (Really) Divides Us

    March 3, 2016 Read More
  • Another perspective on “I just can’t stay in this church anymore…”

    February 21, 2016 Read More
  • An (Honest) Disagreement at the Heart of the LGBT-Conservative Religious Conflict…That (Almost) No One is Talking About

    February 14, 2016 Read More
  • Yes, Let’s PLEASE Have a Serious Conversation About Suicide!  Questions for the Public Conversation

    January 29, 2016 Read More
  • Recruiting a Team: Flirting with Curiosity in the New Year

    January 14, 2016 Read More
  • What motivates this dialogue project? Part I

    As I’ve written more about contrasting narratives shaping this particular conversation, one of the questions that I’ve heard is “what exactly motivates this all?” This usually comes up with some suspicion about what drives…

  • #7 What exactly is meant by ‘change’ in the context of same-sex attraction?

    Note:  As detailed elsewhere, children’s art invokes for me the curiosity, wonder, and “beginner’s mind” that makes for an especially productive conversation. “As children we fall in love with the wonder of being alive,” Tsoknyi…

  • #6 What does it mean when someone accepts experiencing same-sex attraction or being gay?

    Note:  As detailed elsewhere, children’s art invokes for me the curiosity, wonder, and “beginner’s mind” that makes for an especially productive conversation. “As children we fall in love with the wonder of being alive,” Tsoknyi…

  • Can we disagree about ‘who we are’…without becoming enemies?

    I was invited by the editor of an international opendemocracy.net forum to write some reflections about the Mormon conversation in the wake of the recent LDS policy clarification. That abbreviated article published November 30, 2015 omitted some important details,…

  • Ten Ways that Thoughtful, Good-hearted People Disagree about Same-Sex Relationships & Gay Rights

    One of the interesting byproducts of protracted conflict – whether in a marriage, a family or a community – is that one or both sides begin to articulate the others’ “views” in ways that seem…

  • #5 What role does choice play in identity development and working with physical sensation or emotion?

    Note:  As detailed elsewhere, children’s art invokes for me the curiosity, wonder, and “beginner’s mind” that makes for an especially productive conversation. “As children we fall in love with the wonder of being alive,” Tsoknyi…

  • Question from Arthur – Is peace even possible or are we in the middle of an irreconcilable war?

    One of the most common, most unquestioned and most damaging stereotypes of dialogue is that its primary aim is simply to create more harmony and peace in the world. This is the same thing…

  • #4 What exactly is meant in saying we ‘accept’ or ‘support’ or ‘affirm’ or ‘love’ or are ‘compassionate’?

    Note:  As detailed elsewhere, children’s art invokes for me the curiosity, wonder, and “beginner’s mind” that makes for an especially productive conversation. “As children we fall in love with the wonder of being alive,” Tsoknyi…

  • Ten Ways That Thoughtful, Good-hearted People Disagree about Mormon Policy

    As introduced in a previous post, here is a proposed “map” of the conversation happening right now. Feedback is welcome! 1. Do these recent policy changes reflect coldness or cruelty on the part of Church…

  • Something you can do TODAY to promote more Gay/Mormon affection and understanding

    Since posting some thoughts last week about the current state of the LGBT/religious conservative conversation, I’ve been overwhelmed with close to 95,000 unique visitors to this website from 132 different countries. Rather than pressing religious conservatives to simply “divorce”…

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